If you read magazines or listen to any group of women talk about men, the same theme always comes up.
That is, women are always saying “I want a guy who can make me laugh.”
Your Mission As A Guy
Therefore, your mission with any woman is clear: if you want her to like you, you should be a non-stop, barrel of laughs at any cost, right?
It is precisely for this reason that most women will have so many sex fantasies about guys like Adam Sandler, Gilbert Gottfried, or Kevin James.
Sadly, guys like Brad Pitt, George Clooney, or Antonio Banderas are only admired for their celebrity status and good looks – because what women REALLY love is a guy with a wacky, zany sense of humor over all others.
Not exactly (but you already knew that).
The Best Way To Joke Around
The truth is, having the ability to be fun, playful, and make little jokes here and there is just one small part of the overall attraction cocktail.
Yes, if you have a good sense of humor, use it by all means.
However, just like compliments, cologne, or attention, too much of a good thing can work against you.
If you are constantly smiling, joking about everything (and never having a few quiet moments), or just thinking that she has to be constantly entertained or she won’t like you, she might feel like she doesn’t know much about you.
If she doesn’t know much about you, she may have a hard time forming a real attraction.
Worse, she may miss out on details or aspects of you that make her feel REALLY attracted.
The Real Effect
The real purpose for showing off your sense of humor is to let her know you are not serious and boring.
Your sense of humor should show her that you can laugh at yourself, at her, and at life.
When you can show your lighthearted side and contrast it with a strong, confident male presence, you show dimension of character (extremely attractive to women).
However, if you are simply playing the happy minstrel, you’ll smother her with attempts at cheap laughs or slick-but-worthless moves.
After a while, she’ll feel no attraction to you, but she’ll want you to stick around just for entertainment value.
Then, all you’ll get to hear is “Dance monkey! DANCE!” until she eventually loses interest in you altogether.
Lesson here? If want to build attraction with women, be like Brad, George, and Antonio.
Have a fun side.
Have a normal, relaxed, non-joking side.
Mix it up.
What You Need to Remember
- Remember that humor is an ingredient in the attraction recipe (not the main course)
- Know when to turn off your fun-poking side for a bit
- Allow normal conversational moments in between the joking around
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