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So, you want to know how to know if a girl likes you. Actually, it’s way easier than you think.

In the Mel Gibson movie What Women Want, Mel’s character has the amazing power of being able to read women’s thoughts.

He knows if a woman is attracted to him or if she thinks he is an arrogant jerk.

He knows when to make a move and when to back off.

I’m not ashamed to admit that I enjoyed this movie – even though it is a total fantasy flick. Or is it?

The Magic Question

Unfortunately, none of us guys has the power to read a woman’s thoughts but really, we don’t need it.

Why? Because, there is a sure-fire, no-fail way to know if a girl likes you…

Just ask yourself this magic question:

“Is she playing ball?”

Here’s how it works:

Just imagine you’re at the park and you toss a football to someone.

Do they turn your back and ignore the ball?

Do they catch the ball, look at it, and then set it down?

Do they catch it and then shout, “Go long!” before launching a Hail Mary pass that has you sprinting across the field?

In the case of women, your words and actions are the ball.

How she does (or does not) reciprocate shows you how she feels about you.

How Women Feel Attraction

Maybe you believe that beautiful women are only attracted to rich men or good-looking guys with six-pack abs.

Now, I’m not here to debate if that is right or wrong (hint: it’s wrong), but I can tell you that this type of thinking is based on a misconception that many guys have about women.

Guys who believe this think that women have a predetermined and constant level of attraction to men.

In reality, the way women feel attraction inside is much more fluid and changeable.

For example, a woman might be head-over-heels in love with a guy in the beginning of the relationship but loses those feelings later on – often complaining that “He was so much more fun and exciting in the beginning.”

Or, the same woman might be head-over-heels in love with a guy today while saying, “I didn’t like him in that way at first but then I got to really know him.”

Either way, her attraction level was not constant (as is the case for most women).

Understanding the Magic Question

Knowing that women can experience ups and downs in attraction, how do you use the Magic Question for yourself?

Simple. Just watch for these signs to know if she is playing ball with you or not:

She’s Playing Ball

• She reciprocates actions like smiling, touching, asking questions, complimenting, etc..
• She engages you back with activities, challenges, or questions
• She reciprocates your physical advances

She’s Not Playing Ball

• She reciprocates your actions out of politeness or not at all
• She avoids further social engagement to show she’s not interested
• She blocks herself from the possibility of any physical advances by you

Using the Magic Question

Many years ago, I made friends with a guy who was (and still is) really good with women.

Back then I asked him how he could tell if a woman liked him and how did he know when to call, when to ask her out, and when to make the first move on her.

He simply responded with, “Who cares?”

I didn’t understand that response back then but I understand it very well today.

Why? Because, I was over-thinking everything back then (including women). Over-thinking leads to inaction. Inaction leads to sleeping alone (a lot).

The best part about using the Magic Question is that only simple action is required for it to work properly.

That is to say, any moves or actions you make with a new woman can be done just for the sake of gauging her interest-level in you. You just make a move and then ask yourself, “Is she playing ball?”

You know where you stand. You know when to lay back. You know when to push ahead.

Just ask the magic question and you’ll know if a girl likes you. No mind reading is required.

In your face, Mel.

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